Kirjahaku

Identifying the Enabler's Cycle and our conflict with individuals with addiction. Identifying a manipulator, devourer or toxic relationship in our life and learning to confront and detach. This book is a useful tool in dealing with addicts or abusers. It also includes multiple self-assessment tools: Enabler's paradigm, entanglement gauge, anxiety quotient, trust scales, and much more.

This book empowers us to learn survival skills with 12 DETACHMENT PRINCIPLES. The spiraling financial consequences, mental anguish, emotional chaos, and physical drain of enabling begs the voice of detachment to ensure self-preservation. This book is a useful tool in dealing with individuals with Substance Use Disorder or other irresponsible behaviors. It includes many self-assessment tools: Entitlement Evaluation, Empowerment Plan, Helpless Trap, Healthier Me, Healthy Speech Evaluation, Negative Emotional Triggers, Unmet Needs, Obsessive Thinking Traps, Forgiveness, Bitterness, Reconciliation, Holidays, Suffering, Power to Stop Enabling, Self-talk, Rules for Survival, Emotional Separation, Healthy Separation, Unhealthy Ways of Caring vs. Healthy Ways of Caring, Heart Evaluation, Goal Setting, Higher and Lower Levels of Love, True and False Recovery, Entanglement Gauge, Trust Scale Guide, Relationship Goals, the Detachment Quick Guide and practical steps, reflective thinking, and self-evaluation tools.

Ruling and reigning our internal world through Developmental Emotional Maturity Skills is learned intentionally through mastering toxic emotions. It is living above our emotions through the development of a sound mind. This emotional ability mimics physical developmental skills. As a child grows physically, they learn to roll over, sit up, crawl, walk and then run. The development of emotions can be stunted or undeveloped and need to be matured and nurtured through intentional training and disciplining our intellect and thinking. Conquering anxiety, finding a safe self internally, learning to break a helpless/victim trap with disciplined thinking, uncovering hidden emotions under the cloak of anxiety, overcoming double-mindedness and internally finding rest and peace are just a few developmental emotional skills to rule and reign over our internal world. (This is the same information as the Rock of Recovery Series for Enablers and those with Substance Use Disorder. It is reorganized for anyone needing Developmental Emotional Maturity Skills.) This teaching will give us the opportunity to train the next generation and turn them towards maturity and escape self-destructive behaviors. Exaggerated emotions leave us sick inside. Emotional maturity will heal our souls. This is the first booklet in the series. It is an individual devotional, homeschool, or Christian School curriculum, Family Devotions, or Small Group anxiety recovery tool. When these lessons are complete and we practice them daily, we can Rule and Reign over our Internal World.

Rock of Recovery is a series of books for moderators to use in Christian Enabler/Addiction Recovery Groups or for individual use. It teaches Developmental Emotional Maturity Skills. The second book: Overcoming Torment teaches the Tormented Mind Cycle and Recovery. The Offended Cycle and Recovery, an Offense vs. an Emotional Wound, How to be Blameless, A Yoke of Slavery, Identifying a Wounded Heart and Recovery, Drunk vs. Sober Emotions, Forgiveness and Finding Freedom. Each lesson is carefully outlined with an exercise, foundational thinking principle and application to real life. There is a Moderator Guide, Small Group Rules, Leadership Guidelines and character qualities of a Good Follower.

Recognizing our trauma wounds and retraining our inner core to think and respond differently is essential in recovery. Many wounds are harbored in our subconscious thinking. Any new wound that mimics an old wound or trauma gives us an exaggerated emotion and we revert to core destructive emotional patterns. Many wounds develop in childhood and are left untreated. Betrayal, abandonment, rejection, neglect, abuse, misunderstood, unstable environments, unstable relationships, sexual abuse are a few deep inner wounds which could create exaggerated emotions and stunt emotional growth. These wounds fester and create feelings of internal chaos. Children do not have the emotional structure to handle these wounds. This is where unhealthy core patterns develop. This book will assist in developing emotional maturity skills of being responsible to identify and heal our inner wounds. We will explore mental prisons, mind control, carnal/spiritual mind, and carnal/spiritual heart. Retraining inner emotions changes our thoughts patterns and develops new core patterns of love, joy, and lasting peace. These emotional skills can give us the strength to pursue lasting recovery.