If you've ever fallen in love with the person you were sure was your soulmate, only to discover the two of you were not a perfect fit after all, it only proves that being in love with the idea of being in love is a path the lonely take; and soulmates are not the same as Spirit Mates, sometimes known as "twin flames." Spirit Mates," are not mirror images of each other or compatible souls. They are two parts of the same Universal energy who planned their life on Earth long before they arrived here.But life doesn't always go according to plan.