All too many married couples strive to find their "happily ever after" and instead are left struggling just to survive marriage because they are unaware of how their incomplete and inaccurate perspectives form faulty perceptions that they hold to more tightly than truth and reality. The Elephant in the Marriage opens couples' eyes to this destructive cycle, equip them with strategies to establish healthier relationship patterns, and teach them how to leverage accurate perceptions to enjoy a thriving marriage relationship.ENDORSEMENTS: The gap between expectation and reality is where many couples experience disagreement and discouragement. With the help of Dr. Karampatsos, and the examples of other couples, you will learn to bridge that gap and experience a healthy, whole marriage. If you are looking for hope and help, read this book -Rod LoyAuthor of Three Questions, Immediate Obedience, and After the HoneymoonFrom the moment I read the introduction of Dr. Karampatsos' book, I knew there was here a great resource for anyone concerned about healthy marriages. His practical insights are applicable for couples who are in their first or fiftieth year of marriage. I also loved the quotes and practical applications he has interwoven throughout the book. Whether it is for personal use or for a valued leadership tool, I highly commend this book to you.-Don Meyer, Ph.D.President, University of Valley ForgeFull of practical advice, The Elephant in the Marriage, takes a theological and psychological approach to create a thriving marriage. Dr. Karampatsos equips couples with excellent strategies to establish a healthier relationship while showing them how to overcome destructive cycles. I believe this book is a must-read for couples looking to transform their marriages in a meaningful and life-changing way.-Wilfredo "Choco" De JesusLead Pastor, New Life Covenant ChurchAuthor of Move into More, Stay the Course, In the Gap and Amazing FaithThe Elephant in the Marriage offers married couples, from a Christian perspective, both theoretical and practical help to allow them to fulfill their goals for healthy relationships. Jason Karampatsos, Ph.D., has the insight to offer this help, based on his perspective as a licensed clinical professional counselor, ordained minister, husband and father. He draws on the wisdom of great thinkers ranging from Plato to Carl Rogers. Then he offers very practical suggestions to his readers so they may develop communication skills that help them understand how their "perspectives inform" their perceptions, and how their "perceptions are greater than reality." This book is a "must read" for newlyweds as well as those who have been married for many decades.-Anne Marie "Nancy" Wheeler, J.D.Licensed Attorney, Risk Management Consultant for the ACA, and Co-Author of The Counselor and the LawDr. Jason Karampatsos brings a wealth of personal study, research, and experience to the discussion of how to help Christian marriages transition from survival mode to vibrant relationships which reflect the grace and blessing of God. Jason has applied his skill as a counselor with great success helping couples within our network of over one thousand credentialed ministers. I am confident his insights will provide practical tools for those committed to producing healthy marriages in a challenging world.-Ken BurtramSuperintendent, Potomac Ministry Network
