Parenting After Divorce: Rebuilding Your Life and Reaffirming the Relationships That Matter
Bruce J. Buccio
Createspace Independent Publishing Platform
2013
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Finding inspiration, growth, and love after divorce isn't status in quo. This book is an excellent divorce resource for enhancing your knowledge about surviving change and rebuilding your life with your children. Based, in part, on my successes rebuilding my life, and inspired by experiences raising my children while coping with challenges from their mother. When I learned my kids were struggling with verbal and emotional abuse and their mom's bad personal choices and addiction, I went to court and brought my kids home full-time. "I want to express more than a mere Thank you, because it is going to change my life. It is an answer to my prayers on so many levels. It has the, I am not alone with a twist of new perspective in it. I love the way you write I am excited to utilize what I am reading. There were a few times I cried and even stopped to truly absord your words." -- Facebook member of Single Dads Column This series of twelve steps contained here are expressed in an optional supporting seminar program. As within this book, the program walks you through four phases of coping and growth through divorce and rebuilding your life with your children: Inception, Elaboration, Construction, and Transition. It's my hope and wish that you will develop the defining moments as I did with my children, as you seek success to a healthier new family. The overwhelming benefit and outcome, that hits home, is the relationships I gained with my children. Utilizing the steps within will facilitate and lead to a better lifestyle and promote a better life for your child's future--your children will benefit from all their relationships with who acquire the wealth of knowledge cultured here. The concepts, strategies, and philosophies I share will help you embrace change and resolve most conflicts before they occur. Identifying with this content will help you with understanding and utilizing your personal gifts. This book is a pre and post-divorce resource and inspirational for rebuilding your life and reaffirming the relationships that matter. Here are benefits from reading this material: 1.Moving on will be easier with supporting ideas on how to release and sidestep the unavoidable fears and emotions. 2.Learn to understand "new single status" and what it means to do things your way and for your kids- i.e. releasing the inner voice held over from your ex that says otherwise. 3.Help with moving past the confrontation that comes with the revelation of being on your own. 4.Utilize tips and techniques that can be used to help move through the emotional aspects of divorce with your children. 5.Mitigate and find easy resolve from the nonsense that comes with an adversarial co-parent. 6.Learn my successful concepts and philosophies for designing a new path that leads to a more confident future. 7.Add comfort and security with strategies that work for children. 8.Reinforce your new Family status with dynamic experiences and valuable lessons. 9.Learn to communicate effectively with children who are coping during this critical time. 10. Learn how to accept change and define your life with your children as you move forward to a brighter, deeper, future together. 11.Develop the best personal dynamic you can achieve with the single most benefit-staying positive. 12. Rest on the areas that you are at your best, as a parent, compounded with what you have learned and cultured on your way to freedom within the four phases/ twelve steps and segments contained in this book. Bonus Addendum- Discover what subtle items may become contentious after the divorce is final without warning ....and how to design a good parenting plan, to mitigate those issues, that's not found on standard state templates.
