After reading the manuscript, Jayson Gaddis, the famous American relationship coach, wrote: "Michael Polling's 'Autobiography of a Lingam' goes deep into the male psyche in a creative, edgy, and confronting way. If you want to understand a man's inner sexual world, his demons, his beauty, and his darkness, then this book will be helpful on your path to sexual expression and healing."It was Gaddis' own 'Letter to my c_ck', an article published on the internet, in which he, among other things, apologizes for his past behavior towards his c_ck, abusing him and not taking him seriously at all, which made me reconsider how my own c_ck had experienced my attention over the years. Gaddis' letter gave me the inspiration, and audacity, to really 'listen' to what he, my c_ck, would want me to know about his experiences.What began as a short commentary, became a whole book.And, yes, my lingam, as I prefer directing more lovingly my c_ock, had (and still has) so many things to say, that he surprised me more than once. In the end, we, my lingam and I, wrote this book with the aim of improving the male/female-relationship - at both sides. Sexual love in all its vulnerability and intimacy can be the most beautiful and greatest in a lifetime. For men and women.This book is certainly not meant to excite. It has nothing to do with pornography, although eroticism, the experience of the erotic, the sexual, overall surely plays a central role. And, although this book is primarily written from a heterosexual point of view, in essence, it can be read by anyone, homosexuals, transgenders, asexuals, etc. Its main message is about the connection, someone can and/or may have with his or her genitals - and through them with the other sex, and even with the whole world.
