Elaine Mazlish

Posle neverojatnogo uspekha knigi "Kak govorit, chtoby deti slushali, i kak slushat, chtoby deti govorili" obespokoennye roditeli i uchitelja iz raznykh stran stali prisylat pisma A. Faber i E. Mazlish s prosboj napisat analogichnuju knigu pro obschenie s podrostkami. V svoej novoj knige avtory pokazali, kak ispolzuja svoju znamenituju metodiku obschenija, najti kontakt s detmi perekhodnogo vozrasta, postroit s nimi doveritelnye otnoshenija, govorit na takie slozhnye temy, kak seks, narkotiki i vyzyvajuschij vneshnij vid, pomoch im stat nezavisimymi, brat otvetstvennost za svoi postupki i prinimat vzveshennye, razumnye reshenija.

Posle neverojatnogo uspekha knigi "Kak govorit, chtoby deti slushali, i kak slushat, chtoby deti govorili" obespokoennye roditeli i uchitelja iz raznykh stran stali prisylat pisma A. Faber i E. Mazlish s prosboj napisat analogichnuju knigu pro obschenie s podrostkami. V svoej novoj knige avtory pokazali, kak, ispolzuja svoju znamenituju metodiku obschenija, najti kontakt s detmi perekhodnogo vozrasta, postroit s nimi doveritelnye otnoshenija, govorit na slozhnye temy lichnoj bezopasnosti i vyzyvajuschego vneshnego vida. Roditeli uznajut, kak pomoch vzroslejuschim detjam stat nezavisimymi, brat otvetstvennost za svoi postupki i prinimat vzveshennye, razumnye reshenija.

Kniga No1 v rejtinge The New York Times. Prodano bolee 3 millionov ekzempljarov. Perevedeno na 23 jazyka. Adel Faber i Elejn Mazlish - samye izvestnye v mire spetsialisty po obscheniju s detmi, avtory bestsellerov, stavshikh klassikoj literatury po vospitaniju. Ikh metodika osnovana na professionalnom i lichnom opyte: bolshoe kolichestvo nagljadnykh primerov i prakticheskikh sovetov, ponjatnye dialogi, zabavnye komiksy. Blagodarja Faber i Mazlish milliony roditelej nauchilis pravilno obschatsja so svoimi detmi i legko reshat problemy, voznikajuschie v protsesse vospitanija. Blagodarja etoj knige vy pomozhete svoim detjam: - Nauchitsja vyrazhat negativnye chuvstva, ne prichinjaja boli okruzhajuschim. - Perestat vrazhdovat mezhdu soboj i samostojatelno prikhodit k kompromissu. - Byt samimi soboj, ne sravnivaja sebja s bratjami i sestrami.Perevodchik: Novikova T. O.

Zavodja esche odnogo rebenka, roditeli mechtajut o tom, chtoby deti druzhili mezhdu soboj, chtoby starshij pomogal mladshemu, davaja mame vremja peredokhnut ili zanjatsja drugimi delami. No v realnosti pojavlenie esche odnogo rebenka v seme zachastuju soprovozhdaetsja mnogochislennymi detskimi perezhivanijami, revnostju, obidami, ssorami i dazhe drakami. Mirovye eksperty po obscheniju s detmi i avtory bestsellerov Adel Faber i Elejn Mazlish reshili posvjatit etoj probleme tseluju knigu. S pomoschju nagljadnykh primerov, korotkikh pravil i zabavnykh komiksov oni pokazyvajut, v kakikh situatsijakh nuzhno vmeshatsja v konflikt, a v kakikh - pomoch detjam samostojatelno prijti k kompromissu. Pochemu vazhno, otsenivaja povedenie detej, ne sravnivat ikh mezhdu soboj. Kak dobitsja togo, chtoby deti chuvstvovali: pust oni ne mogut poluchit vse vnimanie roditelej, vse igrushki, vsju komnatu i im prikhoditsja delitsja s bratjami i sestrami - roditelskuju ljubov ne nuzhno delit, ee khvatit na vsekh, i oni vsegda mogut na nee rasschityvat.

"Kak govorit, chtoby deti slushali, i kak slushat, chtoby deti govorili" - kultovyj bestseller po vospitaniju. Ot samykh izvestnykh v mire spetsialistov po obscheniju s detmi Adel Faber i Elejn Mazlish (uchitelej s ogromnym stazhem i mnogodetnykh mam). Blagodarja im milliony roditelej nauchilis pravilno obschatsja so svoimi detmi i legko reshat problemy, voznikajuschie v protsesse vospitanija. Metodika Faber i Mazlish pozvolit vam navsegda prekratit domashnie "konflikty pokolenij"; nauchitsja ponimat mysli, chuvstva, prichiny povedenija rebenka; pomoch emu spravitsja s negativnymi emotsijami (razocharovaniem, dosadoj, zlostju, obidoj i t.d.); vyrazhat svoj gnev, ne obizhaja rebenka i najti dejstvennuju alternativu banalnomu nakazaniju. "Kak govorit, chtoby deti slushali..." izdaetsja bolee 20 let, perevedena na 24 jazyka, prodalas tirazhom bolee 5,5 millionov ekzempljarov, legla v osnovu mnogikh metodik i knig, v tom chisle izvestnykh russkikh detskikh psikhologov, tsitiruetsja spetsialistami po semejnym otnoshenijam i razvitiju detej.Perevodchik: Zavelskaja A.Khudozhnik: Coe Kimberly Ann

Käsiraamat, mida on nimetatud ka lapsevanemate piibliks ning mis annab juhiseid, kuidas suhelda lastega nii, et nad tõesti kuulaksid. Ja samas kuulata lapsi sedasi, et nad räägiksid. Seda ajaproovile vastu pidanud raamatut võib julgelt pidada lastekasvatamise klassikaks. Sellest on nõuandeid ja soovitusi ammutanud mitmed põlvkonnad lapsevanemaid.Raamatust leiab toimivaid praktikaid probleemide lahendamiseks ja heade püsisuhete loomiseks. Siit leiab vastused küsimustele, kuidas:lahendada perekonflikte rahumeelselttulla toime oma lapse negatiivsete tunnetega, nagu frustratsioon, viha ja pettumusväljendada enda tugevaid tundeid, ilma teisele haiget tegemataseada kindlaid piire ja säilitada lugupidaminekasutada karistustele alternatiive, mis soodustavad enesedistsipliinimõista, mis vahe on kasulikul ning kasutul kiituselsaavutada lastega tõhus koostööNii lapsevanemate kui ka spetsialistide poolt üle maailma rohkelt kiidetud Adele Faberi ja Elaine Mazlishi raamat aitab muuta suhted igas vanuses lastega vähem stressirohkeks ja rahuldust pakkuvamaks.

In this brilliant addition to the hugely successful How To Talk... series, leading parenting experts Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish show parents how they can inspire and empower young people to learn. Using unique communication strategies, stories from parents and teachers, and cartoons that are the hallmark of their bestselling book, HOW TO TALK SO KIDS WILL LISTEN, Adele and Elaine expertly advise how to: · Invite cooperation · Avoid the pitfalls of punishment · Effectively give praise and criticism · Engage creativity and commitment This breakthrough book reveals how adults can inspire kids to be self-directed, self-disciplined, and responsive to the wonders of learning.

“This parenting book actually made me a better parent.”—Lydia Kiesling, The New York Times From #1 New York Times bestselling authors, the ultimate “parenting bible” (The Boston Globe)—a timeless, beloved book on how to effectively communicate with your child.This bestselling classic by internationally acclaimed experts on communication between parents and children includes fresh insights and suggestions, as well as the author’s time-tested methods to solve common problems and build foundations for lasting relationships, including innovative ways to: · Cope with your child’s negative feelings, such as frustration, anger, and disappointment · Express your strong feelings without being hurtful · Engage your child’s willing cooperation · Set firm limits and maintain goodwill · Use alternatives to punishment that promote self-discipline · Understand the difference between helpful and unhelpful praise · Resolve family conflicts peacefully Enthusiastically praised by parents and professionals around the world, Faber and Mazlish’s down-to-earth, respectful approach makes relationships with children of all ages less stressful and more rewarding.

Must-have dlja roditelej, kotorye khotjat, chtoby ikh deti ne tolko khorosho uchilis, no i stali uspeshnymi vo vzrosloj zhizni. Samye izvestnye v mire spetsialisty po obscheniju s detmi, avtory mnogomillionnogo bestsellera "Kak govorit, chtoby deti slushali, i kak slushat, chtoby deti govorili" Adel Faber i Elejn Mazlish predlagajut unikalnuju strategiju obschenija s detmi, s pomoschju kotoroj mozhno priuchit detej k sosredotochennosti, samodistsipline i otvetstvennosti, motivirovat ikh na uspekh. UNIKALNYE STRATEGII OBSCHENIJa, PROSTYE I DOSTUPNYE DIALOGI, NAGLJADNYE KOMIKSY. Blagodarja etoj knige vy uznaete: * kak dostich vzaimoponimanija, ne pribegaja k nakazanijam i ugrozam; * kak razvit u rebenka interes k uchebe; * kak pomoch emu naladit otnoshenija s odnoklassnikami i uchiteljami.

Posle neverojatnogo uspekha knigi "Kak govorit, chtoby deti slushali, i kak slushat, chtoby deti govorili" obespokoennye roditeli i uchitelja iz raznykh stran stali prisylat pisma A. Faber i E. Mazlish s prosboj napisat analogichnuju knigu pro obschenie s podrostkami. V svoej novoj knige avtory pokazali, kak ispolzuja svoju znamenituju metodiku obschenija, najti kontakt s detmi perekhodnogo vozrasta, postroit s nimi doveritelnye otnoshenija, govorit na takie slozhnye temy, kak seks, narkotiki i vyzyvajuschij vneshnij vid, pomoch im stat nezavisimymi, brat otvetstvennost za svoi postupki i prinimat vzveshennye, razumnye reshenija.

Must-have dlja roditelej, kotorye khotjat, chtoby ikh deti ne tolko khorosho uchilis, no i stali uspeshnymi vo vzrosloj zhizni. Samye izvestnye v mire spetsialisty po obscheniju s detmi, avtory mnogomillionnogo bestsellera "Kak govorit, chtoby deti slushali, i kak slushat, chtoby deti govorili" Adel Faber i Elejn Mazlish predlagajut unikalnuju strategiju obschenija s detmi, s pomoschju kotoroj mozhno priuchit detej k sosredotochennosti, samodistsipline i otvetstvennosti, motivirovat ikh na uspekh. UNIKALNYE STRATEGII OBSCHENIJa, PROSTYE I DOSTUPNYE DIALOGI, NAGLJADNYE KOMIKSY. Blagodarja etoj knige vy uznaete: * kak dostich vzaimoponimanija, ne pribegaja k nakazanijam i ugrozam; * kak razvit u rebenka interes k uchebe; * kak pomoch emu naladit otnoshenija s odnoklassnikami i uchiteljami.

Do your children argue some of or most of the time? Do you struggle as a parent to manage conflict between them? Then you are not alone - and parenting experts are here to help.Part of the internationally bestselling How to Talk... parenting series, this use -friendly guide is filled with tested and practical guidelines for how to cope with - and deflect - sibling rivalry.Whether your children are struggling with unhealthy competition, or with jealousy and resentment, or you are unsure of how to help as a parent, this accessible book is filled with top tips, relatable stories and forward-thinking techniques designed to transform how your children interact with one another.

___'A BRILLIANT BOOK' - PHILIPPA PERRY, AUTHOR OF THE BOOK YOU WISH YOUR PARENTS HAD READ***THE MULTI-MILLION COPY BESTSELLER***How to Talk so Kids Will Listen and Listen so Kids Will Talk is the go-to guide designed to transform your relationship with your child. - Learn how to set clear boundaries and engage your child's co-operation - Find out how to overcome a pattern of arguments - Swap ineffective punishment for positive parenting - Prioritise a respectful and sympathetic approach to conflict resolutionIncluding accessible and helpful case studies, How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk is packed with practical advice for parents and carers.What readers are saying about How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk . . .'Great book with many helpful examples''I read this book and it opened my eyes''I wish everyone knew about it''I've just ordered the whole series''I can't recommend it highly enough'

Un libro indispensable para los padres de hoy. Las autoras, aclamadas expertas en comunicaci n familiar, Adele Faber y Elaine Mazlish han renovado esta obra cl sica para incluir nuevos temas y t cnicas novedosas. Adem s, incorporan sus m todos probados a lo largo del tiempo para resolver problemas comunes y construir las bases de relaciones duraderas y positivas. Este libro ofrece t cnicas innovadoras para lidiar con los sentimientos negativos de tus hijos --como la frustraci n, el enojo y la decepci n--, para ejercer autoridad y expresar el desacuerdo sin herir sus sentimientos, para establecer l mites firmes y resolver los conflictos familiares de forma pac fica. Las autoras han incluido ejercicios pr cticos, caricaturas y di logos modelo que te ayudar n a que tus hijos est n dispuestos a cooperar, a fomentar la disciplina mediante m todos alternativos al castigo y a comprender que, utilizadas correctamente, tus palabras pueden transformar la relaci n con tus hijos y crear un ambiente familiar sin estr s y lleno de recompensas. ENGLISH DESCRIPTION An essential book for today's parents. Renowned family communication experts Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish have updated this classic work to include new topics and innovative techniques. They also share their time-tested methods for solving common problems and building the foundation for lasting, positive relationships. This book presents fresh strategies for dealing with your children's negative emotions--such as frustration, anger, and disappointment--while maintaining authority and expressing disagreement without hurting their feelings. It also offers guidance on setting firm boundaries and resolving family conflicts peacefully. The authors include practical exercises, cartoons, and sample dialogues to help your children become more cooperative, promote discipline through alternatives to punishment, and understand how, when used wisely, your words can transform your relationship with your children and create a low-stress, highly rewarding family environment.

Adel Faber i Elejn Mazlish - samye izvestnye v mire spetsialisty po obscheniju s detmi, avtory bestsellerov, stavshikh klassikoj literatury po vospitaniju. Ikh metodika osnovana na professionalnom i lichnom opyte: bolshoe kolichestvo nagljadnykh primerov i prakticheskikh sovetov, ponjatnye dialogi, zabavnye komiksy. Blagodarja Faber i Mazlish milliony roditelej nauchilis pravilno obschatsja so svoimi detmi i legko reshat problemy, voznikajuschie v protsesse vospitanija.

En tidlös och älskad bestseller som ger dig all kunskap du behöver för att få ett bättre förhållande till dina barn och dig själv. Entusiastiskt lovordad av föräldrar och barnomsorgspersonal över hela världen. Adele Faber och Elaine Mazlish har en jordnära och respektfull inställning som visar hur livet med barn i alla åldrar kan bli mindre stressande och mer givande. Här delar de prisbelönta experterna sina senaste kunskaper och förslag utifrån feedback de har fått genom åren. Deras kommunikationsmetoder illustrerade med härliga serieteckningar som visar hur man använder dem i praktiken ger dig kreativa sätt att lösa vanliga föräldraskapsproblem. Du lär dig att: - Hantera ditt barns negativa känslor frustration, besvikelse, ilska, etc.- Uttrycka ilska utan att såra - Engagera ditt barn till att samarbeta frivilligt - Sätta fasta gränser i samförstånd med ditt barn - Använda alternativ till straff - Lösa familjekonflikter utan bråk "En ödmjuk guide till att forma förhållandet mellan förälder och barn och till att lösa familjekonflikter." - The Guardian"En utmärkt bok med råd som kan tillämpas på alla typer av relationer." Washington Post "Den mest användbara boken jag läste när mina barn var små." - Lesley Garner, The Telegraph"Den ultimata, kloka föräldraskapsguiden." Prima Baby"Kommer att frambringa mer samarbete från dina barn än allt skrik och bedjande i världen." Christian Science Monitor

The renowned #1 New York Times bestselling authors share their advice and expertise with parents and teens in this accessible, indispensable guide to surviving adolescence. Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish transformed parenting with their breakthrough, bestselling books Siblings Without Rivalry and How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk. Now, they return with this essential guide that tackles the tough issues teens and parents face today. Filled with straightforward advice and written in their trademark, down-to-earth style sure to appeal to both parents and teens, this all-new volume offers both innovative, easy-to-implement suggestions and proven techniques to build the foundation for lasting relationships. From curfews and cliques to sex and drugs, it gives parents the tools to help their children safely navigate the often stormy years of adolescence.