We hear all about the winners in local elections. We may know them personally. What about the ones who lose those same local elections? We know them too.Losing an election is one of the most difficult, emotionally draining experiences a person can face. Candidates spend considerable time and money so everybody knows their name. Consequently, everybody knows the candidate who lost. Did unsuccessful candidates work so hard to be known as "losers"?If you have a friend or loved one who just lost, this writing should help you understand what they have gone through. If you are the losing candidate, this writing will, hopefully, help you understand that you are not alone. You will see that others have felt the same way you are feeling. Most importantly, I hope this writing will help you believe that you did a good thing by running.