Patricia Love

"Män kommer att älska den här boken!"- O, Oprah MagazineLäs mer på:http://www.oprah.com/relationships/How-to-Improve-Your-Marriage-Without-Talking-About-It Män har rätt. Att prata om relationen hjälper inte. Dr. Patricia Love och Dr. Steven Stosny har upptäckt att det finns en betydelsefull biologisk skillnad bakom de flesta pars gräl och diskussioner. Enkelt uttryckt, när man pratar om sin relation känner sig kvinnor närmre men män längre ifrån. Att prata om relationen kommer inte att föra er närmare varandra, förr eller senare är det precis just detta som kommer att driva er isär. Förbättra din relation - utan onödiga ord är full med praktiska tips på vad som får en relation att fungera och vad som får den att inte göra det. Den här guiden hjälper par att hitta en kärlek större än ord.

You know how it can get when a relationship turns sour. By explaining that it is the fundamental differences between men and women that can make relationships so hard, authors Patricia Love and Steven Stosny reveal that the key to a great relationship is rediscovering and maintaining the spark that brought you and your partner together.

Don't break up before the breakthrough! Have you ever believed that you have fallen out of love, or said "I still love him but I'm not IN LOVE anymore?" In this groundbreaking guide to the physiology and psychology of lasting love, Dr. Pat Love reveals that love has normal, predictable stages that include highs and lows, and that many couples mistake the lows for the end of love. "The Truth About Love" is an inspiring, practical guide that will teach you how not to break up before the breakthrough realization: You can create the true love you long for "with the partner you already have."

Lyder noget af dette bekendt: "Af alle mine børn, forventede jeg mest af dig" Oversættelse: Jeg har udvalgt dig til at gøre livet værd at leve. "Du har aldrig givet mig noget besvær" Oversættelse: Ignorér dine egne behov, jeg kan ikke håndtere dem. "Du er den eneste, der virkelig forstår mig" Oversættelse: Jeg ville være fuldstændig alene, hvis det ikke var for dig. Hvis det lyder bekendt, så kunne det se ud som om, du var barn af en forælder, for hvem du har betydet rigtig meget - men i virkeligheden er du vokset op med forventningen om, at du gav afkald på dig selv til fordel for din forælder. Du blev ansvarlig for din forælders velbefindende. I dag ved vi, at det også er overgreb, og kalder det "følelsesmæssig incest". Bogen hjælper dig til at : - identificere tegn på følelsesmæssig incest, - konfrontere dine forældre og din fortid på en kærlig og forstående måde, - slippe de gamle mønstre - uanset om dine forældre er døde eller ej, - skabe et positivt forhold til dine forældre - og ikke mindst til dine egne børn.

Men are right. The "relationship talk" does not help. Dr. Patricia Love's and Dr. Steven Stosny's How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It reveals the stunning truth about marital happiness: - Love is not about better communication. It's about connection. - You'll never get a closer relationship with your man by talking to him like you talk to one of your girlfriends. - Male emotions are like women's sexuality: you can't be too direct too quickly. - There are four ways to connect with a man: touch, activity, sex, routines. - Men want closer marriages just as much as women do, but not if they have to act like a woman.- Talking makes women move closer; it makes men move away.- The secret of the silent male is this: his wife supplies the meaning in his life.- The stunning truth about love is that talking doesn't help. Drs. Patricia Love and Steven Stosny have studied this all-too-familiar dynamic between men and women and have reached a truly shocking conclusion. Even with the best of intentions, talking about your relationship doesn't bring you together, and it will eventually drive you apart. The reason for this is that underneath most couples' fights, there is a biological difference at work. A woman's vulnerability to fear and anxiety makes her draw closer, while a man's subtle sensitivity to shame makes him pull away in response. This is why so many married couples fall into the archetypal roles of nagging wife/stonewalling husband, and why improving a marriage can't happen through words. How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It teaches couples how to get closer in ways that don't require "trying to turn a man into a woman." Rich in stories of couples who have turned their marriages around, and full of practical advice about the behaviors that make and break marriages, this essential guide will help couples find love beyond words.

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