Randy J Paterson

Assertiveness is a critical skill that influences both professional success and personal happiness. With more than 100,000 copies sold, this self-help classic by psychologist Randy J. Paterson-author of How to Be Miserable-is now fully revised and updated. With this workbook, readers will learn to set and maintain boundaries, assert themselves constructively, and be more genuine in their relationships.

Stand up and be heard! With more than 100,000 copies sold, this fully revised and updated self-help classic by psychologist Randy J. Paterson—author of How to Be Miserable—will help you get started today.Do you feel uncomfortable in situations where you disagree with others? Do you struggle to express your opinions or assert your boundaries? If you’ve ever felt paralyzed by confrontation, or have bitten your tongue rather than offer an opposing point of view, you know that a lack of assertiveness can leave you feeling marginalized and powerless. Assertiveness is a critical skill that not only influences your professional success, but also your personal happiness! So, how can you make sure your voice is heard?The Assertiveness Workbook contains powerfully effective skills grounded in cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) to help you communicate more effectively, improve social interactions, and express yourself with confidence and clarity. You’ll learn how to set and maintain personal boundaries while staying connected, and discover ways to be more genuine and open in your relationships. Finally, you’ll learn to defend yourself calmly if you’re unfairly criticized or asked to submit to unreasonable requests.Fully revised and updated—this new edition includes information on the impact of social media, mini-dialogs to help you navigate tricky social interactions, and skills to shift your behaviors to be more assertive—so you can improve your communication skills, and your life!

Following in the footsteps of his snarky self-help hit, How to Be Miserable, psychologist Randy J. Paterson uses his trademark wit and irony to help young adults tackle the most common road blocks that stand in the way of successful ''adulting.'' With this tongue-and-cheek guide, readers will learn to navigate everyday challenges and take control of their lives.

Following in the footsteps of his snarky self-help hit, How to Be Miserable, psychologist Randy J. Patersonuses his trademark wit and irony to help you tackle the most common roadblocks that stand in the way ofsuccessful "adulting."Are you living in your parent's basement? Can you measure your life by the hours you spend video streaming or gaming?Do you have absolutely no idea who you really are or what matters to you? Are you emotionally stunted and incapable ofmature relationships? Great! Keep it up. If you just can't get enough of being miserable, you're on the right path.In How to Be Miserable in Your Twenties, you won't find platitudes or promises of love, happiness, and a fabulous life.What you will find are 40 strategies to help you cultivate a life of abject misery. On the other hand, if you want to takecontrol of your destiny, find meaning and a sense of purpose, or just be a damn grownup, feel free to do the opposite ofwhat this book says. You may yet join the ranks of happy people everywhere!So, keep getting caught in the same self-defeating traps that have led you to an unfulfilling existence-or not! Either way,this book will help you take a good long look at yourself and your life, and come up with a solid action plan for yourworst (or best) future.