Robert J (Dr Bob) Rubel

For the first time ever, this book deconstructs a BDSM scene and rebuilds them component by component to explain why you do what you do in a scene-and how to do it intentionally and reliably to achieve extraordinary, consistent results. By the time you have learned to implement this material, your toys will have become extensions of your will. You will know how to speak the physical language (in addition to the verbal language) of connection. With practice and application, these skills will energize your play and elevate it from a mundane to a transcendent experience. We provide a recipe of sorts; a formula for reliably producing magical play scenes.